Weddings on a dime

Some of the photos included are from other websites and are not my personal property, they are merely examples

We’re making a list

The very first thing we need to do is make a list of what we want our wedding to look like….

I will be using my own wedding and my daughter’s as an example. Over the next few weeks, we will explore all the money saving tips, deals, and craft ideas I can muster!

Going along with the daily blog, don’t forget to check the Daily deal’s page for money saving items and ideas! Many Valentines day items, can double for wedding decor. Having a football themed wedding? hit the after Superbowl sale for decor. Gold and black motif? perhaps you can still find some new years decor and save there. Don’t forget to pick an activity for the wee ones, if children will be present at the event; busy kids are happy kids 😉

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What are YOUR must haves?

I wanted a lace dress, a big cake, photos, music, and I wanted to most of all have a great time! Looking back, I’m glad we did a garden wedding, making all the food myself, and doing my own invites and decor was actually a lot of fun. It’s not how much money you spend, it’s about making the day all yours, and making memories to last a lifetime.

I wanted silk flowers, this way I could make them just the way I wanted months ahead of time.

I wanted “peach”, I wanted a memorial candle to honor my husband’s parents, I wanted fun invites, I wanted a unique guest book- we collected flat rocks on a camping trip and had people “sign rocks” I still have them in a bowl, that sits in the entry way, and I wanted favors that fit us, and something people would use… ( 10 years later, we all still use these Koozies!)

This list goes hand in hand, with your guest list, as well

More guests may mean more gifts, but it also means, more chairs, more food, more cake, and more money… So really think about who you want to share your day. Don’t be afraid to cut that list back, don’t worry about hurt feelings, don’t think twice about asking people not to bring small children, THIS IS YOUR DAY~!

You can buy a wedding planner, or download one, or here, or here. There are even websites to help you plan, like Zola, or The Knot. You can also post ideas on a shared Pintrest page so your bridal party can help.

Save those dimes!

Another way to save money, is to include DIYs

Joanns &Michaels, both have classes!

Make sure to watch those weekly ads,and clip those coupons (Hobby lobby doesn’t have coupons any longer, but their sales are amazing!

TARGET: for wedding supplies? yes ma’am!

Show us some color!

Location, location, location!

If going with a venue, Do the offer catering? Do you even want food and if so what kind?~ Sit down meal, hors d’oeuvres, just desserts? Will you serve alcohol? Do they have a liquor license? This can have hidden expenses, so ask! Do they do cakes? you may save if it’s included in a package; we’ll cover cakes later on. Do they have a room for the bridal party to get ready? How about a dance floor?

Get married during the week instead of on Saturday. This can often help the budget stretch a bit, as venues sometimes give discounts for off-peak times. Maybe not ideal with out of town guests, but if it works for you, do it!

We did sliders, crudite and charcuterie , cookies, and cake at ours. We had punch, beer, wine, some hard alcohol, as well as sodas and water. I prepared everything myself, including our cake. I saved us a ton of money doing this, but you could do it too, with a little help from some family or friends. We will cover Cakes, desserts, and food more in detail later on.

Some locations offer guest rooms for out of town visitors, but personally I think is something to offer to guest at their own expense. You shouldn’t have to put up out of town guests. You have enough on your plate.

Event coordinator? Even if yours is a close friend or family member, you need one! I was my own but I tend to do things in a very organized matter; lists, post its, charts .. I also tend to do it all myself so it’s done correctly; I’m kinda bossy. It’s also nice to have an assistant to help with the details, and making sure everyone follows the plan you have made for your day.

Speaking of plans, make sure as the guests of honor, you acknowledge your guests. Weather you have a traditional line up where everyone is greeted by the bridal party, or that you simply mingle at your reception; at the very least thank them all publicly for coming to share your day.

I also want to stress that you and your new spouse make time for each other. Even if you don’t do the traditional dance, you need to find some time together, because you will be mingling and can often lose track of one another. I’ve seen it happen. And for the love of Pete! make sure to eat the food! We were so busy I barely ate anything!

Setting your location is one of the first big steps. Once you book your location, you have a set date and time. Make sure this doesn’t clash with other family events. Once your location is booked, depending on what is included, you have a good idea of what you have to rent or do not have to rent. You may even change your overall theme and colors depending on these things. The bright side is, that you now have a solid base on which to build your day!

Tables and chairs~ Using a venue?- Do they supply these? is it an extra fee? Do you want seating? Do you want your loved ones gathers around you in a circle -most actual ceremonies run about 12-15 minutes, so maybe you don’t want your guests to sit? Remember this is YOUR day, make it one of a kind. Will you have your reception in the same location? If so double duty your space. We had our chairs set up for the ceremony with a slight curve to them on either side of the aisle. Then we pulled in the rest of the tables and used the chairs around them, everyone just kinda pitched in to move things, it went very smoothly. We had rented chairs from a local company for just $1 each, and tables we had a few, borrowed a few and once you cover them and add decor they all blend together. If you attend church but aren’t having your wedding at the church, you may be able to borrow from them anyway, so don’t be afraid to ask.

Indoor? outdoor? if outdoor, do they have a plan if it rains? Rain on your wedding day is good luck by the way. A big tent is a good idea in two ways, if it rains, they have cover, if its really hot, you have some shade. We had a tent, I got a killer deal on it, but it didn’t get used much.

Having done a few weddings, and been to many more, I cannot stress this next point enough.

Do a volume check. Having a large wedding? You may need a mic so that everyone can hear you. If you have long slender seating, those in the back will not be able to hear your vows, and if you’re writing your own, this will be lost on a lot of your guests. If you aren’t good at electronics ask a friend to help, last thing you want on your big day is a mic squeal. *shudder*

Perhaps a different seating arrangement is in order?

Parking~ Something people tend to not think about until you can’t find a space. Do they have enough space?, Do they have handicap accessibility? if that’s something you need. Will you have elderly guests? how far will they have to walk? Will you need a valet? Make sure there’s insurance for that! Don’t be afraid to visit many locations, and feel free to go back and visit again.

Feeling overwhelmed yet? This is the time where you step back again and decide what is REALLY important for you and your partner. Remember, you don’t want to blow all your money on one day, do you? really? It’s about you and them, and your day. Chose what is most important, not all the frivolous stuff.

Do you want a church wedding, intimate outdoor wedding? perhaps there’s a local home or location you love? I was always in love with Gretna Green, here in Spokane. Barn wedding? Banquet hall- perhaps you have a parent or grandparent that belongs to a local Grange, or club, where you can use their location for a small fee or donation? There are so many choices to choose from these days!

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Say cheese~ Let’s talk photography

Engagement photos can be used for your invitations and as part of your wedding decor. It is also a chance to evaluate photographers. Last thing you want is for your ‘once in a lifetime’, wedding photos to not be what you want! It can also be a family member, or maybe you use your favorite Facebook photo. Whatever YOU want! Make it funny? make it simple? make it yours!

I recommend searching “engagement photos” and finding some examples to show your photographer, and then have fun!

Wedding photos

..are one of the most important parts of a wedding, these will be your memories for a lifetime. Again, search Pintrest, google, wherever, and keep a notebook of things you want to capture. Things I wanted; me walking down the aisle, the cake cutting, the look on my husbands face when I walked down the aisle, the signing of our license.

Must have photos

1. Getting ready: you and your girls, him and the boys, mom straightening your veil, dad kissing your cheek… 2. Personality pic: weddings can be so serious, have a little fun! 3. Bouquet: who doesn’t want a photo of their flowers? 4. Invitations: You make them pretty, memorialize them. 5. Generational photo; whether its a picture of grandma, mom and you, or your hands with all the different rings, these are very cherished photos. 6. Shoes: your wedding shoes with your veil?, maybe you wore sneakers under your dress, or maybe he has “help me” on the bottoms of his? 7. Individual bridal party: shots, these are your wedding couple, the brides maids, groomsmen, parents, etc. It doesn’t hurt to take single photos of each member to add to their thank you card you send out later ;). 8. The reception space (empty); you spent all that time and money to make it look great. 9. Cake: 10. Centerpieces: 11. Rings, on the pillow, in a box, in the bouquet, there’s so many ways to do this one! 12. Confetti: or other fun exits, ask your venue, they may have a list of things you can’t do :(, 13. Groom portrait: 14. The Veil: 15. The little ones: 16. Favors or welcome bags: 17. Bride and Groom gifts and letters: It is such a sweet touch to have a gift or letter delivered to your new spouse moments before the ceremony. 18. Escort cards: This is a detail that often gets looked over, but if you have an escort table, you are going to want to remember it! Escort cards are the more informal place cards, and direct guests to a table rather than a seat. We had open seating. 19.  Decor and signage: 20. Hair and makeup shots:

My must haves, signing the certificate, the small details, and my husband’s face. That is my all time favorite photo, along with my mom, as she’s no longer with us, and the silly moments, and of course the littles..

Let’s make it official

Your wedding won’t be official if you do not have a wedding officiant. Now that you have a date, you need to make sure your officiant is available that day. You can use your family minister, hire an officiant, or even get a friend to do it with some simple steps. Find someone that can help make your wedding as unique as you. Don’t be afraid to tweak your vows to match your personality. Favorite poem, or song? you can work that in. Find an officiant that will work with you to make your day special. Don’t be afraid to invite your officiant to stay for the festivities, they had a big part in your day. And make sure they are available, for your date too!

*Funny story…We had our date and our officiant, only to have them back out not too far off from our wedding date. I was freaking out! ~No joke, just a little while later the nicest lady walked into my work, she could see I was upset about something and when I told her she lit up, and informed me that her husband was a minister…. and that’s how we got our officiant. God works in mysterious ways!

Save the date

About 6 months before your wedding, you should send out your save the dates. These are just little reminders so that you can get your wedding on your friends and families calendars, and let them know of your upcoming nuptials if they don’t already. These can be whatever you want them to be. The can match your invitations, but they do not have to. Make them fun, add your pet, whatever your heart desires! This can also be a time to check out invitations as well, and get an idea of what you want in that department as well. Personally I like these with an engagement photo and in a magnet form, easy to pop on the fridge where you see it, and don’t forget.

Getting them out in a timely matter will allow people to get their schedule set; time off from work, booking a hotel if its out of town. IF you are allowing a plus one? not having kids at the wedding? where it will be held? these can all be importing info that your guests will need to make their own arrangements. If you are having a small ceremony with family , but inviting friends and others to the reception, you may want to let people know exactly what they are being invited to. Make sure your name, date, and location are clearly stated. Everyone who gets a ‘save the date’ gets a wedding invite. No exceptions.

Save on printing and postage by emailing or texting your Save the Dates. Create your own digital Save the Dates using a photo and image editor app on your phone. There are also companies that offer business cards at a low rate, they make adorable save the dates. You could even add a small magnet so it sticks to friends and families refrigerators.

At this point you should have your date, officiant, location, and an idea at least of decor.

Possibly your theme/colors, photographer, and an idea of what invitations you want. I’ve listed a few of my favorites here. These sites let you do more designing, so that you can make them your own.

Say “YES” to the dress

Maybe you know exactly what you want, and maybe you don’t have a clue. Either way, it’s perfectly fine, and now is a great time to start looking. Start with Pintrest or simply do a google search and see what catches your eye. Once you have an idea of what you want, go look through some at a local bridal store, and book an appointment to try them on. If you’ve never been to one of these, you will need to bring the proper undergarments, and shoes so that you see how the dress will fit. It’s also a great idea to check second hand store and consignment stores for great bargains! If you know someone who sews, you can save even more money. ~I made mine and my daughters. You can even piece different ones together and make your own designer dress if you’re crafty, or have a crafty friend. Plain dresses are easy to upgrade as well, or add a coverlet to.

Keep an open mind, you may find something you love even more than what you had thought you wanted. You will want to shop early, allowing time for alterations, especially if you plan on slimming down a bit. Remember, we’re trying to save money for your life together, you do not need a $5000 dress. I wore my dress for maybe an hour before changing into something more comfortable. Do your homework before you start making appointments, since you don’t want to waste time at a shop that doesn’t carry dresses you like or has terrible customer service. Shopping on a weekday, also tends to be less busy. Start on the low end of the budget, and allow a little wiggle room. If your plus size, call ahead to make sure they have dresses in your size. If you have a veil or headpiece take that with you, to make sure it goes with the dress you pick.

Take people with you to shop that will support you; not your opinionated friend that will make the day difficult. Think about how you will need to move about during your event. Are you kneeling in the ceremony? jumping the broom? dancing? Make sure you can move freely in a gown you pick. or perhaps a gown that has a break away skirt that turns your long gown into a shorter one for the reception. Pockets? all the rage these days and allow you to carry your phone for quick snapshots. Just make sure its on silent during the ceremony… Funny story, I was doing a ceremony for some friends, and when I asked if anyone had any objections, the grooms phone went off, .. “Droiddddd…”

Your dress will be one of the most important parts of your wedding; when it comes to your dress or anything else for that matter; If you don’t love it, keep looking.

Still want that over the top dress, but want to save? Buy a sample or pre-loved designer dress online from Nearly Newlywed. Check out Grace Loves Lace, Berta, BHLDN and more, anywhere from 40 – 80% off the original sale price. Then re-sell it when you’re done and recoup some of the costs!

If you’ve never looked at wedding dresses, brace yourself. they are not sized like regular clothing. Wedding gowns are typically one or two sizes above your normal size. I don’t know why, but when you’re a 12 and they tell you, you’re wearing a 16, it can really shock your ego.

Feast or famine

Let’s talk food. First of all, the time of day, for your event, has a lot to do with what food you will serve. If your wedding is at 10am, you may go with a brunch theme. Who doesn’t love brunch? If you’re event is noon-ish perhaps sandwiches, evening wedding a sit down dinner. Of course we want to say it again, this is YOUR day so if you want a taco bar, do that! Maybe you’re having a small ceremony with desserts and drinks only, that’s o.k. too.

Most couples cannot afford a fully catered meal, so this is a great place to save money on your event. Many people worry about pleasing their guests, but again this is YOUR day. It is wise to have a gluten free and a vegan option in today’s world.

Preparing the food yourself, (it can be done, I did it) along with some family and friends, can be a very special treat for your wedding guests and a great way to make your wedding more personal. Serve your family’s favorite food or ethnic specialties. We had a variety of meats; pork, chicken and beef, cooked the day before, and kept warm in crock pots, and little slider buns. Along with cold salads and pastas I whipped up in the few days before. Think bbq picnic.

You could even do a potluck! Have each guest bring a dish or item, this is a great way to save money. And if you’re already living together, as many people are, you don’t really need a bunch of wedding gifts, to furnish a home. A potluck is a great way to celebrate the day. ( add it to your invites and and have them let you know what they are bringing so that you don’t have a table with 30 bags of dinner rolls.) Perhaps you belong to a wonderful church, I can guarantee some of the ladies would love to help with food and so much more!

Veggie platters, Mini Sliders, Mini pizzas, Assorted cheeses, Meat skewers, Tuna tartare cones, Mini hotdogs and pickles , Tacos and tequila on the side, Soft pretzels, Bacon-wrapped foods, Morrocan chicken skewers, Assorted French fries I could go on and on!

A dessert bar is also a great way to go, and the choices are endless; cupcakes, cookies, snacks, s’mores, chocolate fountain, or a sundae bar!

And the newest trend- food trucks! but keep in mind these things if you go this route; plates, cutlery, napkins, Staffing, Beverage, Dessert service , Electricity/ Power, Parking space

Hear ye! Hear ye!

With all this planning, don’t forget to send out those announcements! If no one knows about it, they can’t show up! When announcing your big day, you want it to be the best, so definitely take your time to chose the right ones.

Think about how much you want to spend, the style you want; classic, floral, rustic? and the wording. If your parents are helping foot the bill you want to have them mentioned in the invite, traditionally. Whether you buy them or make them yourself, you want something that will reflect your story as a couple. Be creative! Personalize that simple piece of paper that will contain the details of one of the most important days of your life.

GET CREATIVE! ~ Ours were truly our own… “Because your love and friendship, have made us who we are, And because you enjoy good beer and food as much as we do….”

Our RSVPs were too! “We will be there with bells on__we will be there but we don’t do bells__we will be there but still undecided about the bells__we will not be there, we heard about the people with bells__ we will not be there, regardless of the bell controversy” “the very best present we can receive is your presence. If you wish to bring a dish or beverage it will be welcomed and appreciated. Dress casual, and wear comfortable shoes, we will be on the lawn. ”

( that’s important to women wearing heels- don’t believe me? throw on some heels and run through the back yard 😉 )

I’ve listed a few of my favorites here. These sites let you do more designing, so that you can make them your own.

Decor and more!

No celebration is complete without some sort of decor, but you don’t have to break the bank, to zhuzh up your event. –Don’t you love that word?- zhuzh. -One of my favorites!

The simplest items, and a tiny pop of color can be a real show stopper. –You have heard the phrase- “less is more” ?

Weather you go with balloons, paper lanterns, candles, sheers, fairy lights, You can make a magical presentation and do it under budget. The trick is to shop ahead, and shop wisely. I love thrift stores, and you can find so many deals! Find things you like, change up the color if you need to; remember paint is your friend. Play around with items, browse Pintrest a lot! and remember to check out the local Dollar Tree stores, product can vary from one location to the next. Hit those sales at Hobby Lobby, Michaels, Joanns and check out Walmart too, they have some treasures as well. Deals can be found online too, I recommend shopping ahead in case it isn’t up to your standards, but I’ve gotten items from Amazon, Temu, Shein and eFavormart.

Ideas for table decor. If you’re having food of any kind, you will have tables. We had random mismatched tables but no one noticed when I pulled them together with match table clothes and some simple decor. If I could do it all over again, I’d make the vases you see below, I absolutely love these and they are easy to do on a budget.

Adding personal photos is also a great idea, from baby photos, to grade school and high school especially if they have know each other a long time. You tables can be simple or elegant, it’s all up to you. There are tons of DIYs as well. Refer to Pinterest, and remember many of them can be made with Dollar Tree items, or bulk items found on many of the sites we mentioned above.

You can add personal touches almost anywhere, the aisle, the backdrop, add an arch!

If your venue doesn’t offer chairs, and tables. You may be able to borrow them from a friend or family member, your church, or local club, we got a deal on our chairs for $1 each from a local rental company. You can also purchase them used on Marketplace or Craigslist and resell to another bride after your event. Arches are really fun to make out of all kinds of items, we post many DIYs you see here on our Facebook page.

The flavor of your favor

Let’s face it, we all love wedding favors, who doesn’t love a little freebie?

Make yours memorable, and useful! I have a box with old wedding favors I’ve gotten and never used. The cute deck of cards, bubbles, and little bags of treats, that were simply too cute to eat. But, that is not what you want, you want people to love them, use them, enjoy them!

The possibilities are endless, key shaped bottle openers, for those that don’t drink, these still make a cute key ring, coffee packs, matchbooks are a great oldie but goodie, s’more kits, birdseed, garden seeds, mints, chap-sticks, little bells they can “ring for a kiss”, home baked cookies.. Pick favors that match your wedding decor, and also your personalities ❤ We opted for koozies! They fit us perfectly, as most of or friends usually have a beverage of some kind, in hand.

Remembering wedding I attended through my life, many times the ‘favor’ was that little bag of rice for tossing when the bride and groom departed. Tossing rice has evolved over the last several years. The possibilities are endless.

Would you be caught dead in that?

When choosing attire for your attendants, please please take their needs into consideration. You asked them to be there for your most important day, they are doing you a favor. Don’t demand atrocious dresses, that cost a fortune. There are so many options!

Maybe you want matching gowns, I get that, I really do, but going with similar dresses of the same shade, or maybe not the same, can be magical too. Try to find something that won’t break the bank, perhaps, something that can be worn more than one way. Also keep in mind the body style of your friends, what are they comfortable in? Not everyone can pull off a strapless, just saying. Be that cool bride that lets your gals have a say in the matter, and buy something they can wear again, not something that will live forever in the back of a closet.

* Grab paint sample cards, when matching colors, you can hand one to your attendants with your color match marked.

Whatever you do, don’t do this! lol.. (that little flower girl?, that’s my cousin Kari)

Saving money can also mean ‘renting’ not buying. Amazon has lots of great dresses on a budget, read reviews and do your homework!

Pick a bouquet that you wouldn’t want to toss

Your bouquet is whatever you want it to be. The flowers you want, the colors you want, and even the medium you want. Be that real flowers, silk, succulents, paper flowers, Sola wood flowers, and even rhinestones, The possibilities are endless. And while you’re at it, make sure to have a smaller tossing bouquet, if you’re wanting to keep your bouquet.

Not a ‘normal’ bride? that’s ok! You be you! This is your day!

While fresh flowers are beautiful and fragrant, buying silk ahead of time, means you can save a ton of money, and not worry about what they will look like, or wilting. These Amazon bundles are beautiful and have great reviews. Check out Ling’s Moments

Missing someone who can’t be at your wedding, this is one of many places to add a touch of remembrance.

When putting that special thought into your flowers, don’t forget your other half. You can get creative with your bridesmaids and your groomsmen too.

Have your cake and eat it too

I love cake, and personally I think it is one of the best places in a wedding to show your personalities. Maybe you love gaming or Marvel comics? -do a two sided cake- business in the front and party in the back. Maybe you want to use your cake to mimic your dress details. Unfrosted cakes are a thing too, but not my favorite choice- I love me some frosting! 😉

Painted cakes are beautiful; as are white cakes with color accents. This can also be a way to save money. You can order plain white cakes, and then stack and decorate yourself to save a bundle! Add real flowers, an arranged silk floral spray, or other decor, that you have pre-made. The possibilities are endless. There are also alternatives such as cookie cakes, and cupcake stacks, I’ve even seen doughnuts. The choice is yours! So pick YOUR cake, and then eat it!

These four cakes below, are ones I have made ❤

Making the cut

While we know the wedding is for the couple, all brides will tell you it is “their” day. All girls care about how they look, so let’s talk hair and makeup. When doing this on a budget, you really can do it yourself, or get a friend to help. If you want to have your hair done the morning of the big day, it doesn’t add a ton of cost to get an up-do, or something styled. If you’re wanting a cut or color, I recommend doing this at least a week prior so that any issues have time to be ironed out, get it? “ironed” out…. Make sure to play around with your veil or headpiece, if you’re wearing one, ahead of time. You want to be comfortable on the big day.

Winter wedding? you will want a foundation that won’t look too dry or flat. Summer? you don’t want anything that gets shiny too fast. Daytime to nighttime, opt for something long-wearing. Pick a lipstick or balm that won’t rub off on your new groom, and something that will not wash you out ( too bold.) Make sure to drink plenty of water, did you know that hydrated skin, allows for better makeup application? If you’re having your makeup done, make time to try out a few styles, so that you are happy with it, the day of the big event. The most important thing is that your foundation is a perfect match, you don’t want to look orange in all those photos, or have your face not match the rest of you. Remember to keep necessities on hand; Blotting papers are a must, pressed powder in a compact so you have a mirror on-hand, and a lipstick or lip gloss to touch up throughout the day. And don’t forget to moisturize in the days prior to the wedding; no one wants old man elbows, especially on the bride.

Having your nails done? spray tan?, or your hair dyed?, even if it’s maintenance. Make sure to get it done prior to the event to give time to change it, if you need to.

Sweets for the sweet

As your day nears, don’t forget to pick out a small gift for your new spouse, (include a letter or card (this is also a great photo op, receiving these gifts) Don’t forget to get something for your attendants. Cuff links, beverage glasses, a small piece of jewelry, key ring… The possibilities are endless, but you do need to thank them for being part of your day, it’s just good manners.

This is also a good time to put together your essential baskets, to have on hand, too. The Dollar Tree is your friend for this one! While you’re out and about, grab up those lil’ items for this amazing, must have project! Other things to add! ~~ sewing kit! , antacid, safety pins, hem tape,

Feelin’ Extra?

All those extras can add up, but there’s a lot you can do on a budget, too. Planning accordingly can save you money too. Are you having your ceremony close to a holiday? Or at your church? they may already have flowers on site or candles that you can use but not have to spend money on. Maybe have your ceremony at a garden or park, flowers provided free of charge 😉 Where is somewhere you love the decor, you never know where you could have the ceremony, and rendezvous somewhere else for the reception, even your favorite restaurant or bar? Just make sure to reserve the space needed. Many restaurants will let you use a banquet room, as long as you buy beverages. We used to do this for our meetings. People can order food if they want. It may not be the norm, but with some tweaking, you can make it work for you. Just make sure you’re upfront that it’s your wedding reception, so that they can help with menu planning, service requirements, etc.

Having it in a friend or relatives yard it a great way to save money, that’s what we did. We got to set up at our own pace, we cleaned up later that weekend, no rush. You can add yard games to keep the guests entertained; Giant Jenga, Yard Yahtzee, horseshoes, corn-hole is very popular right now, or even croquet!

Speaking of extras, many people think they need a wedding program. Most of those end up in the trash, but if you want one, make it do double duty. Put flower petals in it, for the (rice) toss later, or put a cookie in the bag for your ‘favor’. You can use these to also provide your guests with essentials like first-aid kits, snacks and lip balm.

Your program or menu if you’re serving food, can also double as decor.

Double duty, is our theme for this segment. My husband hates a uni-tasker, (and item that has only one use) So if something can do more than one task, it will save you money. One of my favorites is taking that boring guestbook, that ends up in some drawer, and incorporating an art piece that is not only beautiful decor for your ceremony, but something you can display in your home. The possibilities are endless.

When thinking double duty, ceremony flowers, can be used as reception flowers. We used our ceremony chairs, and moved them around tables, (with some help from friends), to switch over to our reception in our yard. When talking flowers, greenery is way cheaper than actual flowers so take that into consideration, when setting up your decor. Personally if I could do it all over again, I’d use a ton of pine boughs and pine cones, which are now all over my yard! lol

The biggest way to keep costs down, is to limit the number of guests, and attendants. It is YOUR day, and you do not have to invite you mother’s bridge group! Close relatives and friends should be your focus. Close friend at work? that’s fine, but don’t feel obligated to invite the entire office.

It is also a fact that a long family style, table setting, vs several smaller tables, means less table decor. Wanting a bar? Beer and wine is cheaper than adding liquor, too. You are not required to have a sit down dinner, as we have discussed earlier. Timing your ceremony for off meal times, and doing a cake only, or a desert bar, or horderves, will save money as well. It also depends on your crowd. When I got married, we had an older crowd of friends and family and we partied until almost midnight. My daughter’s wedding was much different and she was sad that guests bailed early on. Don’t pay for something people won’t stick around for.

When thinking double duty, ceremony flowers, can be used as reception flowers. We used our ceremony chairs, and moved them around tables, (with some help from friends), to switch over to our reception in our yard. When talking flowers, greenery is way cheaper than actual flowers so take that into consideration, when setting up your decor. Personally if I could do it all over again, I’d use a ton of pine boughs and pine cones, which are now all over my yard! lol

The biggest way to keep costs down, is to limit the number of guests, and attendants. It is YOUR day, and you do not have to invite you mother’s bridge group! Close relatives and friends should be your focus. Close friend at work? that’s fine, but don’t feel obligated to invite the entire office.

It is also a fact that a long family style, table setting, vs several smaller tables, means less table decor. Wanting a bar? Beer and wine is cheaper than adding liquor, too. You are not required to have a sit down dinner, as we have discussed earlier. Timing your ceremony for off meal times, and doing a cake only, or a desert bar, or horderves, will save money as well. It also depends on your crowd. When I got married, we had an older crowd of friends and family and we partied until almost midnight. My daughter’s wedding was much different and she was sad that guests bailed early on. Don’t pay for something people won’t stick around for.

We rented chairs ( had the tables) We lined the tables off to the side. Once the ceremony was over, a few guys spread the tables out and arranged the chairs around them.. Most of the guests were in line for food, so it worked very well. We did it at my daughters wedding too.

(If you are worried, do a dry run!)

What about the kids?

Kids? or no kids? that is the question, and there is no right or wrong answer, it is up to you, what you want at your ceremony. No one wants to pay for a little person to pick at the food, possibly toss it on the floor, and most likely throw a tantrum at your event. Then again, their may be family members who are of a tender age that you DO want at your event. The choice is ultimately yours.

Here are a few examples, more can be found here.

If you are having children at the event, make sure to include something to help keep them occupied. Wedding bubbles, coloring books, kid’s only snack bar, have the dj play a song for the kids such as ‘Let it go’ or ‘Can’t stop the feeling’ and let the kids have the dance floor for a few minutes, or how about a bounce house? or if you are having your wedding at your home church, perhaps you can recruit a few volunteers to staff the nursery area, make sure to tip them!

Oh shoot, I totally forgot about that!

When planning your perfect day, remember there is no such thing as perfect. Something usually goes wrong, and it will on your day too, but being prepared for it, will make it easier to deal with. There are so many little details, that you may or may not though about, such as transportation to and from, for the bridal parties, and special guests, or out of town guests. People will be bringing gifts, so who is in charge of where they go, and who gets them home from the reception? ( you might be pretty busy…) Have you gotten a cake cutting set? cake topper? toasting glasses? I know you ordered the cake! Flowers? boutonnieres/corsages for groomsmen, and parents. Card box? Cash on hand for vendor tips? it’s just good manners to tip these people pulling your day together. If you bought gifts for the parents, or the wedding party, don’t forget to bring them. It’s ok to gift them at the rehearsal if that takes something off your plate the day of. But the gift for your spouse, should be giving the day of, typically by the best man/ maid of honor, just before the ceremony. Invitation suite for the photographer? (This is your invite, save the date, rsvp card etc, so the photographer can get a good photo of it for your wedding album.) Marriage license. Special hangers for photos. Guest book and pen(s). Have you made arrangements for the vendors to eat? they are working for you and won’t get a chance to run out for a burger, so take care of them! Emergency kit, with a sewing kit! just in case! Phone chargers on hand. Printed copies of your vows and any speeches? ( you need a thank you speech for the reception). Reserved seating signs? and table numbers? You have your dress but do you have your veil, hair accessories, and special jewelry? Dressing robe(s) for getting ready and photos? Going on a honeymoon? are your bags packed? Passports updated? (If you’re needing them). Prenuptial Agreements, Dress Alterations, Honeymoon Lingerie, Postage Stamps, Special Undergarments, Name change fees, Hair and Make Up Trial Runs, Tables and Seating Not Provided by Venue, Additional Linens and Cutlery, Corkage Fees. Some venues will allow you to bring in your own wine and champagne for a fee. Pre Wedding Food and Drinks for Yourself and Bridal Party, Venue set up costs and take down costs are the included?, Overtime costs, Vendor Thank You Cards. While not required, this thoughtful touch is generally appreciated. Service Charges and Taxes, and you plan but there may be Mistakes and oversights, that add charges.

Make sure to eat dinner and connect with your spouse before the big event. Make sure to get a good nights sleep, and on the day of, get a good breakfast! Make sure to “be present” for the day… you have worked on on this, now make sure you take a deep breath and enjoy it, it goes by all too fast. Make sure to slow down, and enjoy the food and your new spouse on the big day!

Printable emergency list

Writing my vows- now what?

Everyone wants to write their own vows, at first, but then when presented with the task it can be daunting! “What do I write!? ” Are you having a tough time?, there are lots of vows you can find online and tweak them to be your own, your vows can be a poem, or song lyrics, it is totally your thoughts and feelings toward your new spouse.

Here are a few ideas you can highlight to get you started; #1 “pet peeve” you would never change about your partner? Why is your partner your best friend? first thought when you met? favorite memory? Imagine your partner, what image comes to mind? What are they wearing; what do they smell like; are they smiling or doing an activity? partner’s favorite quirks? or Why is it so impossible to imagine your life without them? 

Do you know your new spouses Love Language? How do you plan to show up for your partner day after day, especially during hard seasons? How do you cheer them up after they’ve had a bad day? What is their guilty pleasure? How does your partner make you a better person? What unconventional thing makes them smile most?

Struggling to get started? Let’s break it down to three parts: Tell a story, share what you love about your partner, and make promises. The story should be short, more of an anecdote -how you met, or a time you helped each other, or when you knew you were in love. 2nd: list reasons you love them, 3rd: Make promises about your future together. Each of these sections can include moments of humor, to break up the seriousness. (If that’s your style) you can add things like, ” I promise to always love you, even when the Seahawks lose to the Cowboys.” “I promise to hire a plumber instead of trying to fix it myself.” “I promise to protect you from spiders forever and ever.”I promise to keep your favorite cheesey poofs in the house at all times.” or “I’ll always be the Christina to your Meredith. (Hello, Grey’s Anatomy fans!)

Wedding Ceremony Readings

While we are talking vows, lets also take a look at readings. Some people just have one, but two is also feasible. We did the standard 1 Corinthians 13 (which starts with “Love is patient, love is kind…”), But these are also good ones, too. “How Do I Love Thee” by Elizabeth Barrett Browning, William Shakespeare’s Sonnet 116, “On Marriage” from The Prophet by Khalil Gibran, “I Carry Your Heart With Me” by e.e. Cummings, and excerpts from The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams. Don’t be afraid to choose a something different, particularly if you’re having a more casual ceremony. Check out such readings as “Falling in Love is Like Owning a Dog” by Taylor Mali and “A Lovely Love Story” by Edward Monkton (this one includes dinosaurs!). Obviously there are many more, but these are some examples- Yours can be anything that has meaning for you. Again, a poem, a song, a line from a favorite book or movie?.. It’s all up to you.

More readings here.

Don’t get stuck on a trend- this is your day!

Trends come and go, someone gets crazy over an idea, and “POW!” it becomes a trend. Lately, sources say that bouquet tosses and garters are on the decline, many people simply don’t like what they stand for and are opting out, but that doesn’t mean you can’t do them, remember it is YOUR day, and there are no rules to YOUR day. Pampas grass has been very popular , but also might be on the decline, it sheds terribly and can be hard to work with, but if you love it-DO IT! Brides are also choosing smaller intimate weddings, and the days of a dozen bridesmaids are falling away fast. It’s also a matter of cost, I’m sure, on both counts. Wedding books have also fell by the wayside, and couple are opting for more visually pleasing choices, that are more ‘art’, than ‘book’.

Wedding favors have also seen a decline, as many are just simply thrown away, so if you choose a favor, choose wisely so that your money isn’t being wasted. With that being said, brides may splurge on things like food trucks and photo booths, as a new trend. They are also choosing more than one dress, one for the ceremony and something more dance floor friendly for the reception.

Personalized vows have been around for a bit, and destination weddings, but we are seeing more and more of them. We are seeing a lot more greenery and less flowers. The greenery is less expensive and when using house plants and succulents, they will live long after your event. Weddings historically have been very muted, but colorful weddings, with more than one color are also very popular these days, themes are big as well, there’s even a bride on tiktok who chose Carhartts instead of dresses! – it is YOUR wedding after all -make it memorable, and make it YOU.

As plans progress, and the bill goes up and up, let’s take a step back, and reevaluate some of our choices…

Roses? but they’re gonna die!

Flowers can be a huge expense, so let’s take a minute to look at some things we can do, to limit the cost. Choose floral designs you can use for your wedding ceremony and reception. It doesn’t take much work to have a couple of friends move a few arrangements, from one spot to another. Pew flowers can get picked up by the last few out of the wedding, and rushed over to the reception.

Limiting the number or kinds of flowers you have, can also lower costs. Peonies. Hands down, the most coveted of all wedding flowers-everyone loves ’em, everyone wants ’em, but sadly, they’re one of the most expensive flowers. Garden roses are also a favorite, but not budget friendly. Be up front with your florist (if using one) and take their advice. One thing you might try, is partnering with another couple, or two. See if you can share flowers? with the people having their wedding before you, after you, or both. It’s a wild concept but it can work and save everyone some money. Most event flowers just get tossed, but some choose to donate them to a local nursing home after, too. Choosing in-season flowers can also be helpful and greenery is less than flowers on the price scale, so lots of greenery, is key, when saving your ‘green’.

Live plants, are a great alternative! Starting a home? take them home after and plant them for great memories and savings. Succulent bouquets and be replanted too. And tiny cacti or succulents as wedding favors for guests to take home. Depending on your green thumb and timeline, you could grow all your own flowers and save a fortune!

If you are a sentimental bride and plan on preserving your bouquet, make sure to have a dummy bouquet to toss, or skip the bouquet toss altogether. If you really want to save your flowers, I would opt for fake flowers, they have changed so much over the years, and ‘fake’ is not a word you would use when seeing these! I recommend Ling’s, their flowers are amazing and if I could do my wedding all over, I would have Ling’s for sure! You can also make your own with Sola flowers, which are made of wood and can be dyed any color- you can buy, dye and build your own bouquets, or buy ready made ones as well! Really look around and don’t be afraid to think our of the box. Buying dried, silk or faux flowers not only saves money, but you can get them ahead of time and not have to worry about wilted flowers on the day of your ceremony.

To Bouquet, or not to bouquet

Everything you need for your reception, or do you?

When planning a wedding it is so easy to forget things, and easy to go completely overboard on things you don’t need. If you are using an event center of some sort, make sure to get a detailed list of what they will be providing, and what you need to bring. All inclusive packages can save you money, but their may be things they do not provide, that you want or need. Is it inside? outside? are you prepared if the weather isn’t great? Their may be extra charges too, so take your time, and don’t be afraid to ask questions and of course get it all in writing.

If you’re renting tents, do you need to set them up or is that included in the delivery? Does your location have tents for bad weather? is there and extra charge if they are needed? ( recently heard of a bride who was charge double, for her ceremony when they had to put up tents. ) Lighting? what time of day is your event? what are your lighting options? are they included or is that an extra charge? ASK! Will you have a band? or dj? Where will they set up? Do you want a dance floor? is that included? setup? (if outside)

Build your own?

Tables? Chargers? (more of a want than a need) glassware? flatware? napkins?.. Bar ware? dessert ware? serving trays & utensils? if these are included great, but they make beautiful throw away items now, so shop around! ( and remember go to Dollar Tree first!)

Cake stand? Table linens? Chair covers? sashes? (another want, not a need). Decor, signage? table decor? chair signs? Candles? garlands, or wreaths? Draping?

Seating chart or escort cards, place cards, table numbers and holders, menu signs or menu cards, bar menu, personalized cocktail napkins, All things to consider…

Don’t forget! Guest book and pens, card box, bouquet and garter? favors? having a photo booth? don’t forget the props! audio/visual equipment? cake knife? send off supplies? (sparklers, birdseed, confetti? ) Getaway car decor? emergency kit, bathroom amenity baskets, photo displays/memorial candle? and all your important documents!

Big event? or a big life?

People spend so much money on a wedding, when in reality they should be putting it toward their future. A wedding is just one day, and making smart money choices for your wedding, will allow you to put more money toward your future: home, kids, business? to your future.

One way to save money is to plan your wedding between meal times, and not host an expensive sit down meal. In reality the average ceremony itself lasts about 12 minutes. Remember that when dropping your dollars on an expensive dress. Host a cocktail style wedding. take some of your tables, and use tall cocktail tables instead, open up that floor for dancing. (Keep in mind some guest will need a place to sit, especially your elderly guests. )

Cocktails, (or just simple drinks,) too and some hors d’oeuvres or finger foods; mid afternoon, or in the evening, can make for just enough to keep your guests happy, while dancing and enjoying the event. Perhaps you get creative and make some signature drinks? Cocktail events are more relaxed, too. Without a huge sit down dinner, this could also fit in a shorter time slot, to save even more money. Not dancers? yard games and the like are also a great way for guests to mingle. Giant Jenga, Yardzee (giant Yahtzee), corn hole, giant checkers, connect four, or you could put board games at each table and let guests mingle and play where they like: stay away from games like Monopoly that go on for hours and hours. Wedding pinata’? You’ve played beer pong, but have you heard of Prosecco Pong? The possibilities are endless.

Best Man (and woman) Responsibilities

Nowadays there are no rules when it comes to a Best Man. You can have more than one, or even a Best Gal. The most important job of the Best “Person”, is to help steer the rest of the crew. Making sure the Groom stays focused and calm on the big day, and to make sure the other groomsmen are doing the things they need to do; getting their wedding attire, attending pre-wedding functions, and helping with the bachelor party. On the big day they need to be present, on time, and smile! Help out where ever they are needed, directing guests, helping with clean up, and finally returning their formal wear. Contrary to popular belief, it is not their job to shag the bridesmaids. Those shenanigans are best left in the Rom-coms.

Part of the best man’s duties after directing the other men with their attire, and planning an awesome bachelor party, and getting everyone to where they need to be is also giving the bride and groom a wedding gift, you might think of going in on one with the other groomsmen to save a little money.

Help with arranging transportation, this will be a big help to the bride, especially if the groom isn’t very involved in the planning; check in with her to see what you can do to help steer, the uninvolved groom, if need be. Make sure to keep everyone on track the day of- be the “Time Keeper” especially of they didn’t hire a wedding coordinator.

It is the Best person’s job to keep track of the rings, stand beside the groom, and sign the marriage license as his witness. Make sure he doesn’t forget anything on the big day and keep him ‘present’ in the moment. remind him to dance, and eat, and focus on his new wife, and by all means don’t forget to deliver an unforgettable Best man speech! You may be asked to help with tasks at the end of the night and the days following the wedding, including making sure vendors are tipped and paid, transporting gifts to the couple’s home or another safe location, and returning any rented attire. It is also in the job description to decorate the getaway vehicle as well.

Choose your person wisely!

Eat, drink and be married.

If food is really something you want at your wedding, there are cost cutting alternatives; like Costco. Weather you have a Costco card, or you’ve helped someone lug their bulk items in from the car; there are not many people who haven’t heard of Costco.

From cakes to cold plates, you can feed an army at Costco, however you cannot order online, you need to go to the store and order in old school style. While they do not allow you to customize orders, there are a few other things you need to know. Ordering a few days ahead is a good idea, and make sure that you have a Costco card ( or someone who does that can pick up the order. Make sure to know the store hours, so that you don’t end up standing outside a locked door, with no food to feed your guests. Along with the platters, Costco also has many ready made meals, so check out those options as well. Caesar salad, chicken salad, mac and cheese, ribs, and street taco kits, just to name a few. You can also grab muffins and cookies, if they will work for your event. You should probably grab some, for the morning for both sides as they might get peckish while getting ready; croissants and muffins go great with Mimosas! (you can grab oj and champagne while at Costco too!)

I have also seen platters at other stores, such as Winco (where the choices can be limited, depending on your store) and Safeway, (which appear to be a tad more on the pricey side.) So shop around and make good choices! These day’s the prices are going up and up! I tried to find a recent price list for Costco, but couldn’t find one online- I was SHOCKED at the floral prices there.. No wonder people are opting for different choice when it comes to florals.

While at the store, take a minute to check out the cakes too. Be aware most store bakeries are having cakes shipped in these days. You can go a few different ways. Silly as it sounds, dummy cakes are a thing. You can also buy a few cakes and have them stacked on site.

Dummy wedding cakes are flawlessly iced and decorated polystyrene blocks. Unseen by the naked eye, fake cakes blend seamlessly into your wedding cake design adding height and drama. typically one layer is real so that the bride and groom can cut into it for the “first bite”, the dummy cake is then left as decor, and guests are served plates with cheap sheet cake, typically cut in the kitchen and brought out, to be set around the dummy cake.

If you go the stack-it-yourself route, keep in mind you should have cake supports to keep the cake from collapsing, but it isn’t as hard as it sounds. Get a friend to help, or practice before the wedding. It’s pretty simple, really. You can also go with a multi-tiered cake stand. Just add some flowers and wa-la! beautiful cake, for a great price.

A few more ways to save…

Perhaps rent a large home for a few days on Airbnb or VRBO, making sure to ask the if it’s okay to host an event there. Doing this can also save your family some money on hotel stays if the home has multiple rooms.

Wedding stationary isn’t cheap so check these out, first; Wedding Chicks, Everything Etsy, and Greetings Island. You can also get free wedding printables for bridesmaids invites, groomsmen invites, and reception photo booth props!

Check with tux rental stores too, some offer a free grooms tux, with the rental of groomsmen tuxes, or other deals. Bridal shops may have discounts as well. David’s Bridal has many discounts.

Get a free wedding planner app at WeddingHappy. Before going out to taste wedding cakes, call around to see which bakeries do FREE tastings. ( some charge)

Flowers can be bought in bulk to save money. Get over 100 stems or 10 bouquets of a variety of flowers and fillers for under $100 from Costco.com and do your own arranging. Sam’s Club has per-arranged wedding flower packages you can buy starting at $224 (with free delivery) and includes boutonnieres and corsages. Dollar Tree sells cute Shepard’s hooks in their spring section, and they can give you beautiful aisle decor.

A little known fact; do not use words like “wedding” or “honeymoon”, as they can actually up the cost of your event. I don’t recommend paying for your wedding on credit, but if that is what you choose to do, at least charge it to one that will reward you with free flights for a year. To get a Southwest Companion Pass, which will allow you to designate one person to fly with you for free for a year, you need to earn 125,000 Rapid Rewards Points or take 100 one-way flights within a year. This is hard to do unless you take advantage of the sign-up bonuses.

Many people will argue that renting is cheaper, but if you buy in bulk, ( and shop wisely), you can resell to another bride or brides after the fact and re-coop some of your money. This will save you immensely in the long run. Long tablecloths can run you up to $25 apiece at most event rental companies, but I have found them for under $10 on Amazon. Check our daily deals often!

Most importantly, learn to be thrifty. Hit those thrift stores, hit those sales, and clearance racks often. Check out Craigslist and Marketplace too! Don’t be afraid to mismatch similar items as well.

Get a Spotify account and fill with your favorite songs. A laptop, a decent speaker, and a microphone to set up your own DJ booth. Ask an outgoing friend to gift you with their amateur DJ and emceeing skills. Give him or her a timeline and a playlist full of songs, all they really have to do is press “play” and make a few announcements. That friend could save you hundreds of dollars! Let it be their gift.

Don’t forget to order all those free catalogs! the ideas you will find are worth it! Helzberg Diamonds, Harry Winston, David’s Bridal, Event Decor Direct, Fred Meyer Jewelers, Invitations by Dawn, Mary’s Bridal, Norman’s Bridal Shoppe, Oriental Trading, The American Wedding, Things Remembered.

Here are the free wedding e-magazines that are available right now (some offer a free paper copy as well): Chicago Style e-Magazine, The Knot e-Magazine, Ellwed e-Magazine, Bridal Fantasy e-Magazine, Black Bride e-Magazine, Munaluchi e-Magazine, Rocky Mountain Bride Magazine, Bridal Guide e-Magazine, New England Bride e-Magazine, Southern Bride e-Magazine.

Don’t forget to register!

From Amazon and Target to Sur La Table, when you create a registry at certain retailers, they’ll thank you with a free gift and completion discount. Emmaline Bride also offers wedding giveaways. Enter to win wedding cake toppers, bridesmaid robes, guestbooks, and more free wedding stuff! WeddingVibe is dedicated to all things wedding planning. You can look up wedding vendor locations in your area, get ideas, and start a registry. There’s even a whole section for free wedding giveaways! Bed Bath & Beyond has free bonus gifts for couples, based on what your wedding guests buy for you on your Bed Bath & Beyond wedding registry, you’ll get bonus gifts. You can even steer your guests toward the registry items that will qualify you for the bonus gifts by marking them as ‘favorites’. Register with Dillard’s and get 20% off any remaining home, beauty, furniture, and lingerie items on your Dillard’s wedding registry after your big day (plus 10% off small electrics). Other perks of their registry completion program include a 30-day return policy (after your wedding day) and freebies, like many of the other registries. Register with Crate and Barrel and you’ll get 15% off all items in store and online for three months after your wedding date, plus, bonus gifts. If you receive $450 or more in Wusthof products from your guests, you’ll get a Wusthof 4.5-inch utility knife ($115 value), and that’s just one of the freebies they offer. Head over to Williams-Sonora and register, you’ll receive 10% off all purchases for six months after your wedding. You can earn free gifts there, too.

• Refresh your hair color
• Get your eyebrows done
• Mani/pedi
• Get a massage? ( couple’s massage?)
• Final dress fitting (a friend or bridesmaid should come with you so she can learn how to bustle if your dress requires it)
• Pack your bags for the honeymoon (don’t forget your passport if you’re leaving the country), and confirm your travel arrangements
• Any edible crafting (cookie favors?)
• Clean your ring (get your engagement ring professionally cleaned so it’s extra sparkly on your wedding day)
• Chase down any RSVP stragglers and deliver the final head count
• Clear your work to-do list so you can only focus on wedding festivities and take it all in
• Practice your vows out loud
• Write your partner a note

The night before ~

• Eat a healthy meal
• Pack a small bag of personal items
• Stay hydrated
• Get a good night’s sleep
• Put any boxes, suitcases, bags, and survival kits to bring to the ceremony or reception in a staging area, ready to load into the car- if the car is secure, load the night before.

Morning of the big day~

• Stay off your feet as much as possible
• Eat breakfast
• Stay hydrated
• Take your dress and veil out of the bag early on and have someone steam them if needed
• Lay out all the items (rings, invitations, etc.) that you want your photographer to capture
• Exchange notes/gifts with your partner
• Say thank you to everyone around you

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REMEMBER!

YOUR WEDDING DOES NOT NEED TO BE HUGE

YOUR WEDDING DOES NOT NEED TO BE EXPENSIVE

YOUR WEDDING DOES NOT HAVE TO BE FANCY

YOUR WEDDING DOES NOT HAVE TO BE OVER THE TOP

IT’S YOUR DAY… IT CAN BE WHATEVER YOU WANT IT TO BE!!